The Freedom in Imperfection: How Letting Go of Perfect Can Help You Thrive in Life

We live in a world where perfection is praised and imperfection is shamed. But what if we flipped the script and celebrated our flaws instead? What if we saw imperfection as a symbol of authenticity, and a way to connect with others on a deeper level?

As an artist, I've found that some of my most powerful and moving pieces have come from embracing imperfection. When I allow myself to make mistakes and take risks, I create art that is raw, honest, and relatable. And the same can be said for all areas of life.

When creating this piece, I was focused on studying the muscles, bones, and how the skin lays across the anatomy. I was also paying attention to how light can express confidence. I got lost in my perfectionism. Normally, I leave the eyes for last because they are my favorite part, but this time, I paused. I realized that leaving the eyes undone, even though it felt imperfect and unfinished, gave the person in the artwork an almost mystical glow. It was as if they were looking at me with pride, strangely encouraging me somehow (haha apparently I need the encouragement that day). At the time, it was almost painful for me to leave the eyes unfinished, But I forced myself to leave it unfinished (and imperfect!) and now I love it even more.

By embracing imperfection, we open ourselves up to a world of possibilities. We become more accepting of ourselves and others, more willing to take risks, and more resilient in the face of adversity.

So, how can we embrace imperfection in our daily lives? Start by recognizing that perfection is an unattainable goal. No one is perfect, and that's okay. Next, try to reframe your mistakes as opportunities for growth and learning. Finally, practice self-compassion and kindness, both to yourself and to others.

When we let go of the need for perfection, we create space for authenticity, vulnerability, and creativity. We give ourselves permission to be human, to make mistakes, and to connect with others in a meaningful way. So, embrace your imperfections and see where they take you. You might be surprised at the beauty and freedom that comes with letting go of perfect.